Tuesday, 18 February 2025

A trying day...

Today has been hard work with many difficult emails to deal with and, at times, customers who made little sense when they called us! Whenever we have a half-term holiday we do deal with people that don't normally contact us and some of the questions they ask are bizarre! I also dealt with repeat emails from customers arguing about different matters, which can be a bit draining! It annoys me that some people think they can question how we run the business if it doesn't suit them!

The office was also noisy today and I was hugely relieved when it was 4pm. I said to Sara that it had felt like "tw..ish" Tuesday today, so heaven knows what tomorrow will be like!

Keith collected me as he'd had a dentist appointment today. It was great to head home when it was so light; Spring must be on the way soon, surely? It feels like it's been a long, cold winter despite our dose of sun at Christmas!

Sophie cooked a delicious beef stroganoff this evening and we enjoyed a gorgeous bottle of Australian Merlot with the meal. After we'd eaten I made Keith sit through a new programme starring Hugh Dennis and David Baddiel as they cycled from the Atlantic coast of France to the Mediterranean. Although they are friends, it felt stilted at times and wasn't funny at all. The scenery more than made up for the dialogue, though!

Monday, 17 February 2025

A near miss!

It was great to see the sun this morning as we drove to work - it was like a big orb of orange in the sky! I'm not sure if it was a factor in the near miss I had, though, just as I approached work. The roads were quieter this morning because of the half-term school holiday, and as I came up to a junction opposite where I work I didn't see anything on the road. It was a good job Keith was sitting next to me, though, as I nearly hit a van approaching from my right! Keith shouted out, so I slammed the brakes on and managed to avoid hitting the van. What a lucky escape! He must have been hidden in the pillar running down the side of the windscreen, but that's no excuse. I felt a little shaken up, especially after the near misses we'd had on Saturday, none of which were my fault.

After my morning shock, we faced a busy day with busy phone lines and lots of enquiries about swimming and soft play. Keith picked me up at 4pm and we drove home in peace and quiet. It's been quite loud at work today and tomorrow will be even worse!

After dinner tonight, Keith and I watched Death in Paradise. Although we've seen some sun today, it's still been bitterly cold. Watching the series set in the beautiful Caribbean was like a dose of happiness!

Sunday, 16 February 2025

Just relaxing!

After our long day yesterday, it was lovely to have a little lie-in and a lazy start to Sunday. Sophie had a very indulgent morning lying on the bed with a cuddly Gomez and watching a documentary about O.J. Simpson. It was great to see her properly relaxing for once,  and not rushing about ticking things off her to-do list!

The weather outside was cold and grey and we had the heating on all day. I dread to think what our gas bill will be like this winter! We did several loads of washing, the shopping list and the usual Sunday chores, while Keith prepared chilli con carne for dinner this evening.

So, it's been a chilled-out Sunday and we never moved from the house. Mike popped around in the evening and asked if he could take his two air rifles back with him to Northampton. We couldn't say no as they belonged to him, and he mentioned something about vermin control in his new job as a groundskeeper at the golf club. I really didn't want to hear any more!

Mike didn't stay for long and Sophie and I played Scrabble with a glass of red wine. My daughter beat me narrowly right at the very end of the game!

Saturday, 15 February 2025

Northward bound!

We were up, coffeed, showered and dressed by 7am this morning and I was glad to see it was light(ish). The weather was horrible, though, with a constant drizzle and mist. Keith and I had argued about the best way to get to Bishop Auckland to see his brother, Val, and I was adamant I didn't want to continue on the M1 to Leeds. When we used to travel up regularly, we would take the M18 from the M1 to the A1, and I preferred this route which always seemed quieter than going around busy Leeds.

We took a flask of coffee with us, and a pack of pains au chocolat and intended to stop about halfway to have breakfast. Sophie read her book in the back and Keith and I chatted as we ate up the miles. It was about 190 miles to Bishop Auckland and I commented to Keith that that was nothing compared to our European road trips!

We stopped to use the facilities at Woodall Services on the M1 and drank our coffee with the pastries. It was bitterly cold outside and the mist and drizzle made for difficult driving. Luckily, the road had been quiet up until now.

We continued on our way, taking the M18 (Googly had recommended this route) and then the A1(M). We were held up by roadworks for a while and the two lanes of the A1 were reduced to one. However, once past this, and onto the three lanes, we made good progress and after one more stop, made it to the care home by 10.45am.

There was a little confusion when we arrived as Keith called his brother Val, not Valentine, and the lovely member of staff who welcomed us didn't know who he was talking about! It was only when Keith said Valentine that the penny dropped! Val was in bed when we arrived and talking to his son, Jeffery. Jeffery left and the three of us sat down and chatted to Val who, although pale and thin, seemed to be in good spirits.

The lovely staff gave us tea and biscuits and we stayed for almost two hours. At times, the conversation was a little emotional, but with Val at almost 95 years of age, we didn't expect anything different. There is a big age gap between Keith and his three siblings and it was great for Val to reminisce with us and talk about old times. Before we left, he asked when we'd be up to see him again, bless him. We have no idea what will happen to him over the next few weeks and don't know whether he'll be able to go home, or will be moved into a different care home. Although all the staff we met were lovely, there was a startling difference between this home and the one my parents are in. Val has the savings to go to somewhere that's more comfortable and luxurious, so we'll have to wait and see.

Sophie had wanted to see the home of Newcastle United, so we set the satnav for a car park near the ground and set off back onto the A1(M). Sophie's satnav on her phone took us off the A1(M) because of traffic and we nearly had an accident at a roundabout, when a car cut me up badly. Luckily, I'd had a feeling they wanted to be in my lane so I braked but it was annoying nonetheless!

The weather was still misty, grey and cold and we made good time to Newcastle, managing to find plenty of parking spaces in the car park right next to Newcastle's ground. We walked around the arena and found the statutes of Alan Shearer and Bobby Robson.


Newcastle were playing away at Manchester City today (the less said about that, the better!) so the stadium was quiet. Keith wanted to show Sophie one of his favourite pubs, The Crown Posada, so we headed into the city centre which was bustling with shoppers, groups of women wearing very little, and tourists.

Sophie was disappointed that she hadn't heard more Geordie accents and had been expecting to see groups of people wearing Newcastle shirts gathering to watch the match. We found The Crown Posada pub near the Quayside and went into the narrow, crowded tavern for a drink.

The pub is really just a narrow corridor with a snug at one end, so if you stand at the bar, you're constantly in the way of people trying to get past. We ordered a strong IPA for Keith while Sophie and I settled for a half pint of Guinness each. Keith had found a tiny table and we sat down with a couple of packets of crisps as we were hungry by now!

The pub reminded me a little of Inn 1888 in Marylebone, but it was much busier, with not a Geordie accent to be heard anywhere, which Sophie was not happy about!


She was then jostled by a group who arrived and plonked themselves down next to her, all with very English cut-glass accents! Oh dear!

We had one drink and left, deciding to get a taxi back to the stadium as the route back was very steep indeed and the paths slippery with rain. The taxi driver prattled on constantly to Keith and ignored both Sophie and me, and I think my daughter was glad to get back to the car and the thought of the drive back south!

Before we went, though, Sophie and Keith posed for photos near the memorial garden:


The route out of Newcastle was simple and straightforward and once over the Tyne we were back on the A1(M) and passing The Angel of the North. We decided to book a table at our local pub as Trish stated we'd be home at 7pm. The thought of stopping at a pub a couple of hours from home and then driving on did not fill me with joy!

The journey home was not pleasant and amazingly we saw the car that had cut me up this morning on the road! I recognised it because of the stickers on the rear of the car and saw that it was a woman driving! We then had another scare when a car pulled onto the motorway and pulled straight into the middle lane, making me swerve into the outside lane! I don't think he even realised I was there!

From the M18, the traffic grew heavier, it rained constantly and the mist made things worse. I had to use all my concentration and amazingly, was cut up again, this time by a van! Have drivers stopped using their mirrors these days?! I was hugely relieved when we turned off the busy M1 onto the A14 and home was in sight.

The roadworks on the journey had held us up, delaying our arrival time by twenty minutes but we were still in good time for our table. I indulged in a whisky and ginger and we had a good look at the menu. I chose a Scotch Egg served with silverskin onions, Sophie opted for Arancini balls, while Keith picked out the chicken wings. For mains, we enjoyed gammon (Keith), a steak burger (Sophie) and a Supreme of chicken with crushed new potatoes and wilted greens (me). The pub was pleasantly busy, warm and welcoming and just what we needed after such a long day on the road!

We were too full for puds and Sophie was itching to get home to see the cats. The house was freezing and the little monkeys were nowhere to be seen, but condescended to see us about twenty minutes after we arrived back. They then had a mad half-hour chasing balls in the living room and racing up and down the stairs!

It goes without saying that we weren't late to bed tonight. I was exhausted!

Friday, 14 February 2025

Phew! It's Friday!

We did the dreaded shopping list last night, but really only had to find inspiration for tonight and Sunday as we're going up north on Saturday. Keith took me to work and I had a good shift, answering all the emails and writing most of the moan report.

Keith picked me up and said Mike had called in for a shower before heading up to Nottingham to see Abbie, but he'd gone when we arrived home. I was sorry I'd missed him, but he's going to pop in on Sunday night to say hello.

Keith didn't go to the pub tonight and stayed out of the way in the kitchen while Sophie and I opened a bottle of Rousanne wine from Chile that I'd chosen in Lidl. It was delicious and disappeared in a trice! We watched three episodes of Come Dine With Me and the contestants were certainly a wacky bunch this week!

Dinner tonight was an easy supper of baked potatoes, salad and cheesy beans, while Keith feasted on the leftovers from last night - roast potatoes, stuffing and pork steaks.

We had an early night as the alarm is set for 5.30am tomorrow!

Thursday, 13 February 2025

Confusing conversations!

I felt shattered when Sophie woke me this morning and hadn't had a good night's sleep. I took myself to work and had a busy shift, clearing the emails and writing some of the moan report.

At 2pm, I sped home and was relieved to see that the charger I'd ordered for my Mum's phone had arrived from Amazon. She hadn't been able to speak to me with her phone for over a week and had lost the charger. Before we went down the route of buying her a new phone, I'd ordered the charger.

I went straight over to the care home and plugged her phone into the mains, but it had been dead for such a long time it took ages to revive it! I stayed for a while and had a confusing conversation with my parents as to what date it was. My Dad had demanded that we go out and buy Mum clothes for a Valentine's party tomorrow but I refused, the thought of going to Tesco and picking out clothes filling me with horror. I haven't yet seen them wearing the clothes I picked out for them for Christmas!

What didn't help was the weekly planner they had in their room saying it was week commencing the 16th of December! I wished heartily that it was, as I'd be facing a Christmas in Mallorca again! 

I made my excuses and left and drove home in the gloom. Back home I decided to give in to the inevitable and have a nap, so I fetched my gorgeous throw downstairs and curled up on a chair with an ASMR video playing. I slept for an hour and felt much more refreshed!

I definitely needed the sleep as I rushed about preparing the porridge and my lunch and then cooked the dinner tonight. Sophie turned her nose up at the pork steaks and had the second half of her lasagne instead! She managed to eat the carrots and my roast potatoes, though!

Wednesday, 12 February 2025

The road to nowhere...

Sophie had another headache this morning so she didn't go to the gym. I woke up at 7am, and before I even looked at the time I knew she hadn't gone. This is slightly worrying that she had an acupuncture session to try and relieve the headaches and they've come back with a vengeance ever since.

I waved her off to work and had a coffee before showering and getting ready for my day. Keith and I had nothing planned apart from doing a quick shop, and I suggested we drive along the new Northampton North-West Relief Road as I thought it had opened. I was wrong! We drove to Boughton Mill where I was hoping to pick it up, but it was closed, even though I could see the new road stretching into the distance! I'm still not sure where it leads, but it must bypass the Bramptons and link up to the stretch of road leading to Junction 16 of the M1. Apparently, there are plans to link up with the A43 near Moulton. 

Our roads in Northamptonshire are in a dire state, with potholes littering our highways and traffic congestion a daily problem. At some point in the future, the A43 between Northampton and Kettering will be a dual carriageway, but until then we have to put up with the road from hell!

Anyway, Keith and I drove out to near Junction 16 and decided to shop at the Lidl near Harlestone. We wandered about, not having a clue what to get for dinner but I suggested a scratch meal for tonight (there was a tub of stir fry left) so Keith bought himself a roast chicken, and we put a lasagne in the trolley for Sophie.

For tomorrow night's meal, we chose pork chops served with cauliflower cheese and roast potatoes, something I knew wouldn't be popular with our daughter! We finished the shopping (it was good to mooch about and look in the middle aisle!) and drove to Sophie's office as we had decided to meet for lunch.

It's been another grey and miserable day today. We have thick cloud over the UK that's refusing to budge! But it's also been bitterly cold lately with a nasty wind coming from the East! Brrrr!

We had a very pleasant lunch and I enjoyed a heart-shaped biscuit with a cup of tea after I'd eaten my ham, egg and salad wrap. We sat for an hour and chatted, then said goodbye to Sophie and returned home to do the usual Wednesday chores, although today we were relieved of writing out the hated shopping list! That's been delayed until tomorrow!